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What are the pitfalls of love in marriage?

What are the pitfalls of love in marriage?

As we have already said, “love” means “a powerful extraordinary attraction” between two individuals, or generally between two creatures to achieve a pure objective. It is one of the glorious appearances of human spirit, and the most excellent masterstrokes of creation. When marriage of two individuals is based on such fondness and affection; but a real and deep one and not a false and surface one, it will certainly remain ... Read More »

what is the role of love in marriage?

what is the role of love in marriage?

Many words have been expressed for love, magnificence and splendour of love, or insanity and disease of love, describing it with different and contradictory phrases. Some great writers have eulogized it saying: “Love” is the officer of life and eternal felicity. (German Goethe) “Love” is the architect of the world. (Hezieh) Toman Man speaks about the miraculous effect of love, and believes: “Love strengthens spirit and keeps man cheerful”. A ... Read More »

Which one should select the spouse, the youth or parents?

Which one should select the spouse, the youth or parents?

This was my selection and that was my parents’ selection! This strange story was published in newspapers, while there are so many similar cases: An 18-year-old bride who took off her bridal dress a few minutes before conclusion of marriage contract and after wearing a man’s dress, she jumped from the window to the yard and escaped. Then, she went to a bathhouse in Narmak area, and cut her vein, ... Read More »

what are the adventures of the marriage that some youth must pass to get married?

what are the adventures of the marriage that some youth must pass to get married?

• Many issues known to us as “unpleasant but meantime inevitable necessities” of life are the products of our illogical deeds and are often avoidable! • Many snares which we suppose destiny has imposed for us are the same chains that we have made by our own hands. • A major part of problems in our life is indeed obstructions, excuses, obstinacies, and even inflexibilities exhibited by us when facing ... Read More »

How the Shackles of youth to get married, can be removed?

How the Shackles of youth to get married, can be removed?

• It is true that ages have passed from the normal time of our marriage, but how can we marry while: • We do not yet have a car! • We do not yet have a job! • We have not yet saved enough money to cover the heavy costs of marriage, gifts for bride! • We have not provided a good place for our marriage ceremonies yet, and … ... Read More »

What are the victims of the illegal relations?

What are the victims of the illegal relations?

In addition to what was explained above, there are always filthy and dirty elements in such societies, who prefer being single to a life of matrimony, called “centres of prostitution” that are an important factor for decrease in marriage as well as dissolution of families. These filthy centres which are necessarily besides present unhealthy societies are a clear proof for abnormal temper and condition of these societies. Prostitution and its ... Read More »

Is it necessary to know how to feed your mind?

Is it necessary to know how to feed your mind?

Imam Hasan (a.s.) said: “عَجِبْتُ لِمَنْ يَتَفَكَّرُ فى مَأكُولِهِ كَيْفَ لا يَتَفَكَّرُ فى مَعْقُولِهِ، فَيُجَنِّبُ بَطْنَهُ ما يُؤذِيهِ و يُودِعُ صَدْرَهُ ما يُرْدِيهِ.” Translation I wonder about those who think about their body’s food, but do not think about their soul’s food. They keep undesirable food away from their belly, but fill up their heart with destructive subjects.1 Brief Description Our people are usually quite careful with their food and ... Read More »